Sounds like your router might be the issue. Either that or your ISP. (Keep in mind most wireless devices use NAT or similar which acts as a type of firewall. The question is whether it has UPnP support & if yes, is it running efficiently.)
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Do you have more than one LW running on your network, if yes, is it using the same connection port?