1. Should not be using both XP & Norton firewalls because they clash resulting in "less" security, not more. Also other problems. So choose one or the other.
2. When updating Norton OR LW, you need to remove the previous Norton firewall rule for LW & re-add it for the new version LW.
3. For the new version LW, you need to remove the previous LW Preferences folder; Try deleting your LW Preferences folder whilst LW is
closed; instructions here:
Point #2 & 3 in Fixes for Limewire (sample image included at bottom of page.)
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