LW 4.18.8 is the latest version, it has the ability to handle torrents. You don't need another torrent program for LW to work.
Your music is still there. The library has been moved to a different location, your files are still in the old location.
See:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/downlo...downloads.html
Your connection problem could be caused by a number of different things. Try the suggestions in this thread:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/connec...t-connect.html
If your still having trouble after trying the suggestions, post your details.
See:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/connec...-you-post.html