My Problems are Over (I thinkl) I went to "Birdy" here Post (2007) "If LW will not connect here's what to try first".
There is a list of things there to try so I did as many as I could BUT i have a sneaky suspicion that because I HAD Made My Default "Download and Save to" "MediaMonkey" and I was also useing MM for "My Player" to preview Thatwas causing the Problem I have gone Back to LW to Save LW as Player AND selected "Show save as"??
I also Selected Don't Show Tips at startup (Popups) and DID File Dissconnect the File Reconnect?? so I hope you will get something from this all thanks to you Birdy Dasha