Welcome flynnboy.
It's not the media players, sounds like it's just a bogus file. Best way to avoid these is to use the Bitzi link, it'll save you many hours and much frustration.
Some help for you here:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/open-d...uld-aware.html
and here:
http://www.gnutellaforums.com/open-d...owse-chat.html