I have found the file: GNUTELLA.EXE and pasted it in the correct location. Limewire was completely closed when I did it. No change in connection.

Now it seems that port forwarding is the next step.
1. I open my program (Limewire) and go to the firewall page and de-select UP&P and select manual port.
2. I select a random number for a port and enter that number.

3. I open my router and click on “Port Forwarding.”
4. I click to ADD and enter my program name – choose TCP/UDP – Enter the same port numbers as above – type in the IP of my computer.
5. Click on APPLY

When I do this my router says that a conflict is present with no clues as to what or where that is. I have never don't this before so I don't know that i am doing everything right. Any help??