Ok, I'm just a little confused so if you could help me with where to put the numbers. You said to make the listening port number and manual port number the same, I'm not sure what number is the listening port number. The area's that have places for numbers are:

Gnutella port: xxxxxx
Manual Port Forward: 6346 (this is listed under gnutella) this one is checked

BitTorrent ports: xxxx to xxxx (6881 to 6889)
I have "Do Nothing" checked off under this one

Sorry, I mess around with computers a bit but this is where my knowledge ends