I just download Phex 0.7.3, this is the first time i've ever you used this gnutella program. I can seem to get it to work. I get "error. connection refused" message. I have LIMEWIRE and can connect with it, but I hate this program. I like the look of PHEX and would like to use it. I running Mac OS 10.1.5. I have DSL. So what am I doing wrong. Please help.