Go to preference and make your itunes folder your shared folder and the folder you save your music in. Dont use limewires MP3 player, and enable itunes support. launch the file once it is complete and if you then want to delete a song from your itunes library, just click on the song and clear it. itunes will then ask you if you want it to drag the song to the trash. This is how i have it configured and it works great.