i am soooooooooo confused and angry

i spent hours perfectly developing my own skin, colors are to tee and everthing...i even sketched it out and colored it on paper. i reallllllllllllllllllly want to use it...so, im on step 12 in the "step by step" intrustions in the "develop your own skin" page....here is what it says:

Launch LimeWire. Go to Options/ Themes and select your new theme. Click “Apply” and restart LimeWire.

two problems here:

1. is it normal that you must select "tools" from the master toolbar before you find "options"

2. when i select "options", there IS NO "themes" option in the selection space....AHHHHHHHHH!!!

....*whimpers in confusion* can no one help me!?!?