I have a cable modem and i connect behind a personal router. i have opened the correct port and made sure that i dont have any other sort of firewall on. However, i still cant connect. I click the connect button in the fire menu and the red light flickers green and then returns to red. please help this is annoying. When i first got the program i was able to connect. When i restarted my computer then i wasnt. A hasty response would be appreciated

Some routers, upon a restart or loss of power, reset their pass through options, which is the name for the settings by which you open ports. Check to make sure they are still open, and if they are, perhaps your ISP block gnutella traffic.