I restarted my router and computer and nothing happened differently. I am pretty sure I don't have any Norton Firewalls. It stays on Starting Connection for forever.

Could it be that I got limewire PRO from fileplanet?

Gads how much did you pay for it? You don't know what you might have ended up with.

Have you tried connecting without the router?

I payed nothing. I got Shareaza and its working no hassle.

Ok so your solution was to move to another gnutella program. Good, so long as it works for you. But don't forget to share back to the gnutella network. Shareaza users are reknown as miserly sharers on the gnutella network, ie: they use almost all their upload bandwidth elsewhere. They should only use one network at at time.