The program should be built into the device. All devices have certain firmware that they operate by. This is accessible to the user either via command line or user interface.

Try it. Open internet explorer. Type in 10.0.0.2 into the address bar.

If you see a box appear, then either (a) By default the username is admin, and the password is epicrouter. Click the Ok button to log in to your router.
OR (b) By default the username is user, and the password is password. Click the Ok button to log in to your router.

Tell me if you can log into your device.

yes i can

btw
what else is strange is that it shows connections to ultrapeers
and i can do a search , np.
just doesnt d/l

Just in case, check Cant download at all - nothing happens when I click download

So then you can port forward if needed. Whoever told you to buy a port forward program didn't know what they were talking about. Unless that was the cost of personal support to do it for you.