Connection Problem!! Urgency!!!!!

[Mysticwizard Of The World]

Well been having problems. At first was with the uploading of others .. because of the Trend Micro Firewall.. and well I know that at least was having only all but few uploads but not like anyone was coming to get my files.. I have connection problem now... and only one bar and the firewall on the blue globe has never left.. no matter whether I have a firewall or not.. cause took out Trend Micro... tried Zone Alarm.. got rid of Zone Alarm..went back to reinstall Trend Micro.. and somehow the router well I am now to use of the net by direct cable connection.. until I figure again the connection I somehow lost in configuration to have LW work properly for me and everyone that connects with me.. So I am at a loss with words for tireless hours spent on connections to net ..LW and to make any sense of the all the suggestions that have either helped to some of the situation fpr brief moment to only hinder and give LW to non functional.. I hate to lose anything I have.. Please Help!!!
Mystic