i just downloaded this lime wire program and i dont have a shared folder only incomplete where is it?

You can go into the folder that contains your "incomplete" folder through My Computer and create a new folder and call it whatever you like. Then just go back into limewire and then go to Tools, Options, then click on the word sharing to the left, then click add and go to the file that you just created. Select that and you're good to go. It'd be a good idea to, when you are done, go back in through my computer, get to the folder you made, and send a shortcut to the desktop. That way you can get to your files easily.