look i dont know how to make a wireshare username im confused anybody have a howto

If you are referring to 'Friends' log-in, I can't give you a full answer at the moment as I'm away & will be for a few weeks. You first need to have an email account that matches those available through the Friends system. GMail works for example. So if you have such an account you will already have a username and password. It's been close to 3 years since I've used Friends so without WSHR being open in front of me I can't advise further for now.
Any friends you have will then need to add you or vice versa to your friends circle within WireShare.

Did you manage to get Friends to work? From memory you need to set-up a username via your email. Gmail has this option to set-up a pseudo name or nickname.
To log into Friends, you choose the Sign-in option from Friends on the menu bar. I would advise being logged into both your email and WireShare simultaneously.

Wireshark doesn't require individual user accounts. Just download and run the program! Capture your network traffic, filter the packets, and analyze away. If you're looking for online communities or forums, you can use existing platforms like Ask Wireshark or join their mailing list. No logins needed, just your curiosity and network know-how!