is there any way to get these criminal or is it even a criminal act. man I feel stupid. wow maybe I should stick with Carbon steel

For starters, do report it to your bank or CC company (depending on how you paid)...they might still be able to cancel the transaction or take some action if you explain the situation. Also have a read through that thread I left about other people getting their money back. If you have a contact for the scam site (email add, phone number, live chat link etc) then you might be able to get in contact with them. Was there any mention of a "refund within X days if you're not happy"...some of these sites offer this.

Hi y'all well this hick made some head way today thanks to Birdy and the thread he sent me to and that leads me to thankin' that Edge fella.
Well wouldnt ya know that it was them [MP3 DOWNLOAD FELLAS, and boy they seem real popular when it comes down to stealing other peoples hard earned money.
I'm not as computer savvy as Edge but I told this John ,fella {employee of said thievin' *******s} I told him basically the same stuff as edge except if i didnt have a full reund within 48hrs I was going to call the FCC and the FBI and I told him that I wasnt the only one and there was awhole bunch of willin to do all it takes to put you outta buisness if you dont act accordingly.anyways i just wanted to thank you all and that I have learned alot the last couple of days .I just wished there was a way to warn other people before they get scammed to and you would think that google would not have these fellas at the top of their list >thanks one and all!! Its nice to know the world is'nt a total loss