here is my setup

-Windows Vista Home Premium
-Zonealarm basic firewall
-2GB of RAM
-over 100 Gb of hard disk space available
-cable internet connection
- Marvell Yukon 88E8056 PCI-E Gigabit Ethernet Controller
and Lynksis router model #WRT54G
- Connecting from apartment building
- limewire version 4.14
Java version 1.6.0_02
-ISP is optimum online
- The test worked when I went to the specified web address at http://www3.limewire.com:6346/

-My roommate is sharing teh connection via the wireless router. She uses a desktop running Windows XP. She doesn't use Limwire or any other P2P programs.

-I've been using Limewire for quite a while, I just got a new setup because my old one was dying.

-There is a brick wall in front of the globe on limewire's interface. I checked windows firewall, and it's off. I have already allowed limewire to bypass my zonealarm firewall.

- I am portforwarding to 6346 with my router.

- I am using lavasoft ad-aware for spyware on my computer. No anti-virus just yet. Need to buy new one.

- I am living in the United States

I hope this info is enough to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Thanks guys!