You need to open up your firewall, so it allows incoming connections for Phex.

Also you need to open up the Phex Port in your router.

You can find the Port Phex uses in the network tab right next to the IP address below the list of connections.

Besides: Never be ashamed to ask. There are few dumb questions and far more dumb answers

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