I need to know how to delete all incoming searches from the monitor tab.......(i will be in a lot of trouble with the wifey)if she see's some of these things

Just uncheck the 'Enable' box and it will not show any incoming searches

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~Kath~
Always judge a person by the way they treat someone who can be of no possible use to them

what she said the last results from before you unchecked the box will stay there though until you restart. To get rid of them without restarting LW, set show last _ searches to 1, wait until it's something your wife won't get pissed about, then uncheck the Enable box.

KathW's suggestion was pretty much all you need to know though