You have a dynamic ip. Probably have a NAT firewall also. Chances of your friend connecting to you without port forwarding are probably minimal.

whats port forwarding then? id do anything to let him get my stuff, theres so much for him to get

Port forwarding is about opening a port for LW which is port 6346. Net games & video conferencing also need this type of thing except they require many more ports to be opened.

You will need to tell us your modem & router brand names & model numbers. You'll also need to set up a static ip for it to be successful.

Please answer this question in a separate thread. We are starting to change topic now! ;)

What is Port Forwarding? Answers:

http://www.portforward.com/help/portforwarding.htm

http://www.linksys.com/support/top10...%20BEFSR41.asp

Dynamic ip:

http://www.answerbag.com/t_view.php/509

http://searchwebservices.techtarget....7_top1,00.html

Static IP:

http://whatis.techtarget.com/definit...520967,00.html

http://www.answerbag.com/t_view.php/511