Can someone tell me what to do to keep limeware automatically starting up and make it to where you allow it to start.

Thanks,
Bravura

Tools > options > advanced > system startup. Untick 'run on system startup' & apply. If it keeps popping up after that, it's probably a virus. See point 4 here
WARNING: Viruses on the network you should be aware of

There's a link to Norbiesworld within that thread. Go to his site & register, he'll help you to get rid of the virus! Make sure you scan a file with your AV program before opening it.

thanks for the help, yeah went to all that, and it still pops up. can i just delete the limeware software and reload it or do i have to run a hijack this and post it on his site?

If it's a virus, deleting & reinstalling won't help. Go to Norbie's site, register, then download Hijackthis. Run Hijack this & post the log with your details in the Viruses, Trojans, Spyware & Computer Help section of the forum.
All the instructions are on the site