When Xolox is connecting to new hosts is tends to take control (not letting other programs to get a chance to do stuff). This is usally not a consern on newer computers because of their speed. If you have WinME, then you are already at a disadvantage because ME and Xolox tend to cause resorse managment problems.

Whenever you post about something like this it is extremly useful to have some of your computer's important specs. Also it would be nice if you would talk nicely.