I have done my best to go through most of the posts regarding connection related problems, but I seem to be missing something.

I have Limewire Pro 4.12.11. Java 1.6.0_01. Pc is WinXP Pro SP2.
When Limewire starts, all I get is "starting connection" with the firewall icon. I have disabled windows firewall and even uninstalled my anti-virus. Problem remained, so i reloaded my pc. Again, I don't have filrewall enabled, but still get the firewall icon in limewire. I have a wireless usb modem.
I have tried varied configs with the 6364 port. Currently I went back to the default config. My listening port is set to 22336. Router config is "Use UPnP (Recomended).
The port test works.

Please advise