If she paid £43 for LW then she was scammed

Which site did she pay for LW? The only official site for download is: Lime Wire » Download LimeWire
LimewireLLC will appear as the vendor, on your CC statement. LW Pro costs $21.95 (~ £14) for 6 months worth of email support & updates, $34.95 (~ £22) for a year's worth. Basic LW is free.

If you bought Pro from somewhere else - apart from paying too much, you'll find that you won't be able to download any updates from the official site... your email address won't be in their database.

Tell your daughter to contact her bank/CC company & report this... they might be able to stop payment & will tell her if she should cancel her card. There's more info in the links below.
Good luck

Membership? - **BEWARE** - Download p2p Clients ONLY Thru Official Sites (click on link)

get your $$$ BACK!!! (music members)

Thanks for that will ring cc company the address she used was.

http://www.limewireuk.com/join.asp

Could you help me what site can she load music from for her ipod apart from itunes.

Thanks

If she wants to use LW, the basic version's free.
There's hardly any difference between Pro & basic anyhow - Pro lets you download from a couple more hosts & connects to 2 more hosts for searching. Unless she's searching for rare files, chances are she wouldn't even notice the difference

She can download free LW basic here: Lime Wire » Download LimeWire

And some info about adding LW downloads to iTunes & iPod: How to transfer music to my iPod (& iTunes)